hiya !! i have a ton of online names (oops) but the main one that most people use is doflamingo~. 你好我的名字是福兆~. 我学说中文, 请帮我学习 !! 但我语法不好lol. why bungeegum? i was super into hunter when i made this and didn't wanna destroy my existing links lmao. i'm a 20 year old weirdo with a clinical obsession with my own ocs and story. i'm disabled in all aspects: being fully blind in my right eye, partially blind in the left, and a bit knocked around in the head~. feel free to reach out to me an any way that's possible, i love talking to people! a word of caution though, i'm horrible at messaging first. don't be too alarmed though, as once someone begins messaging me i become fully engaged in the conversation. don't wanna put too much here though, so ya message me if you wanna chit-chat ☆
INTERESTS LISTS
scor ☀ / pisc ☽ / ari ⬆
entp-t 8w7
derse prince of light
chaotic neutral
chloeric
sx / so
SLOEI
socionics LII
VLEF
tritype 863
wowie, another place i can do i lil bit of talking! not to be a bummer but i should probably list the few reasons why i would not talk to someone. firstly! like i said, i have bad eyesight. so i can't look at blaringly bright and flashy layouts just for the fact i physically cannot see them lol. so i won't talk to you if your stuff is unseeable for me. secondly! i am an adult, so i cut off my interaction with the younger gen at 16. if you're 16+, you're good! if not, we're not gonna be talking! and lastly, but oh so most important for me. if you self diagnose with a personality disorder...
STAY THE HEEEEEEELL AWAY FROM ME LMAO!!!
i'm not ableist or anything, actually i'm a diagnosed narcopath! keyword Diagnosed. i don't mind people self diagnosing with certain neurodivergencies, but personality disorders is not one of them.
if you are an adult, and really are considering you might have a personality disorder, please discuss it with your therapist to see if it even is that. personality disorders are quite uncommon. that doesn't mean your struggles are invalid though, it's just behaviorisms can be because of many different things.
if you're a teen engaging in this though? fuck off! personality disorders can barely even FORM fully if you're under 17, and even then it's still uncommon to actually be a personality disorder. teenagers who want to be involved in part of a group, or have something that excuses shitty behavior can find somewhere else to do it! the online community seems to glorify or think it's cool to have a pd. someone with an actual personality disorder is not uuuusually proud to have it in actuality. like i said before, if you actually do think you have some underlying issue, please talk to a professional about it before slapping a label onto yourself. and even then, wait until you're an adult to start THINKING about labeling, unless a doctor does it first. don't push to be diagnosed with something, just truthfully tell a professional about things surrounding your life, and eventually it'll come together
WHOOPS SORRY THAT WAS LONG, I'M JUST PASSIONATE ABOUT THAT
